shy vs f*ck off

men sometimes struggle with this. on several occasions I've heard that men can't differentiate between whether a girl is shy or whether she is grossed out by him. personally I don't think it's that difficult at all? but you're a girl, you say. yes and that's exactly why.
Let me explain this to all men, once and for all. Girls that want you to "please go away" will either give you NO look at all or she will give you THE look that says "oh please, who told you to get up this morning?" Some guys just do not understand this. We will NOT flirt (read communicate) with you on even the tiniest scale if we do not like you in SOME way. Be it friend or future lay.. Anyway. You get the point. Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong in any way.

Now, if a girl is shy. This is a tough one. Sometimes it's just not the right place or the right time. I'm a strong believer in checking out people's body language. Oh man you can speak volumes by standing a certain way, looking at someone a certain way. For fuck's sake man, make a move. That's the only advice I can give you. I read a book about Quentin Tarantino the other day, and he said a very true thing. He said that if you see this girl every day and you kinda know who she is and you are neutral in how you feel about her. Then one day somebody tells you that that girl really likes you. He said that he would feel pretty good about that and then he might actually start to like the girl as well, even if it is just because she likes him? Now that works both ways you see? I told it kind of stupid, but you get the point..

sorry, the above was just something I had to tell someone..